Think Kate Hudson in Bride Wars (specifically the part where she so to say coerced her bf to propose) and Mila Kunis (Jackie) in That 70's Show when she broke up with Danny Masterson (Hyde) simply because Hyde could not commit himself to marrying her (Jackie). I know the former does not correlate with the latter but I assure you, it has some similarities; marriage & impatience.
In short, you can simply lose a guy in a day by pushing him to marry you. It works I tell ya.
I know I have low patience. But I didn't know I had the ability to drive a person almost-crazy with my (subconcious) accumulative action pressuring him to not marry me but make a step towards it. I blame all the "when-are-you-getting-married question" for turning me into this b***hy monster. I kid you not.
I totally agree when he said, I quote "the journey towards marriage should be happy and not difficult". I also agree when a friend said and I quote "if it is meant that two souls be united as one, the path leading the way should be an easy one". So I prayed to HIM to show me which path should I take. Then, a miracle happened. Suffice to say that we've not ended things just yet.
I won't lie to say I'm not pressured. Of course I am. But I'm learning to leave it to the Almighty to determine the when.
Im writing this post not to air my dirty linen but am using it as a luahan-perasaan venue; that pressuring anyone with the marriage question is no fun. It will either make or break the relationship.
Okay, I'm done. If anyone reading happens to date someone that you totally dislike; try the above tip but a word of caution, I hold no liability should it work in the reverse.heeheh.
Happy working monday everyone.=)